Saturday, November 2, 2013

You will want to keep your strengths in mind when you are setting your goals.


Do you want to improve your self-esteem?


If you or others notice that you have low self esteem, you may want to take some steps to make your self esteem seem much higher. You need to recognize your strengths and help build on your weaknesses. 
You will have to think about how to improve your self esteem and what you really want out of life. 
If you make a few lists, you should be able to find several ways to increase your self esteem levels.
The first list that you will need to make is a list of your personality strengths. 
List everything that you are good at. You can list things like sports or other activities, 
or you can list things that you like about yourself. 

Then you need to make a list of activities that you aren’t so good at or thing that you dislike about yourself. 
Look at the list of things that you like. Is it long?
Does it give you some comfort? Now look at the second list. 
You will notice that most of the list is extremely negative and may be some of the things out of your control. 
For those things that you can’t change or control you should change them to sound positive and put them on your list of things that you like. 

For example, maybe you dislike a co-worker. On the positive side, name someone that you work with that you do like. Once you have a list of things that you can change you need to think about placing goals so that you can change those things. 

You will want to keep your strengths in mind when you are setting your goals. 

You will want to be able to use your strengths to help you achieve your goals 
You should also try to take the negative things and put them in a positive light. 
You don’t want to bring yourself down, but to look at what you are capable of achieving and with some commitment you should be able to change the circumstances to be more pleasing.

Also, to raise your self esteem, you need to keep yourself from people who love to bring you down and say hurtful things to you. You may want to keep away from these people or limit yourself interacting with those types of people. Once you are able to take your negativity away from your environment, the positive will come out and you should be able to reach all your goals and with self esteem. Another thing is to accept your defeats. Sometimes you will set a goal, but you won’t be able to achieve the goal. If you don’t achieve the goal, you need to think about the reasons why you failed. 
Maybe you really just didn’t want it, but others wanted it for you.
That’s okay to fail if your heart wasn’t in it. There are times that you are going to think about 
all the hard work that you put in it and how much you really wanted it, but the truth may be that someone else wanted it more. That’s okay

because you tried your best and if you fail doing your best, it’s better than allowing the defeat.
You can grow from the situation and next time you will have more heart than anyone.
Take steps to raise your self-esteem and feel better about who you are. Lastly, you need to allow yourself to be confident. When you show others that you are confident you can be intimidating to some, 
because confident people usually reach their goals. However, again you need to find a balance. 
You don’t want to seem cocky, but you want to seem qualified and eager.

As Always the best 4 U...)



"The diversity of the phenomena of nature is so great, and the treasures hidden in the heavens so rich, precisely in order that the human mind shall never be lacking in fresh nourishment ". – 
Johannes Kepler

29 comments:

Juliette Jumas said...

If you have low self-esteem, harness the power of your own thoughts and beliefs to change how you feel about yourself.

Tmmy said...

Interesting! I certainly believe in the power of positive thinking and good self esteem. I struggle with knowing what action must accompany positive thinking and good self esteem to get results or effect change

Karlos said...

Low self-esteem can negatively affect virtually every facet of your life, including your relationships, your job and your health. But you can take steps to boost your self-esteem, even if you've been harboring a poor opinion of yourself since childhood.

safouane calamar said...

Improving your self esteem increases your confidence and is a first step towards finding happiness and a better life.

tjou said...

self-esteem simply means appreciating yourself for who you are — faults, foibles and all.

KAOUTHER BENNOUR said...

Good ideas there. This is exciting to me.

Milan Nikolic said...

It’s something we all face, to some degree, I think. working on your self-confidence and self-esteem. Without really thinking of it in those terms, that’s what I’ve been doing over the years, and that’s what helped me finally overcome my fears, and finally pursue my dreams.

Michele said...

Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit

Tom said...

One of the things that held me back from pursuing my dreams for many years was fear of failure … and the lack of self-confidence that I needed to overcome that fear. Thank you to this post.

khaldi mongia said...

One important key to success is self-confidence. A key to self-confidence is preparation. – Arthur Ashe

solcarina said...

Yes, it`s so right Jumas...

Sending lots of love and light.

solcarina said...

Thank you for comment on my blog-Tmmy and Karlos. Very interesting and YES... if you;
Believe and be convincing that most things can be solved in a good way, You will achieve thinks...You never ever would believe, think and ALWAYS see opportunities-STOP negative thoughts that pop up. Be creative/positive and use meditation - and a new world will open up for you.

Sending lots of Joy

solcarina said...

Hi Safouane,

Yes- that is so TRUE.

Thank you.

Sending lots of Joy.

solcarina said...

Hi there TJou...)

Yes, so true...let the love flow.

Lots of love and light.

solcarina said...

Thank`s Kaouther, for your comment...nice to hear.


Wish you the best.

Sending lots of Joy.

RODISI said...

Gracias por tu comentario, estare por aqui siguiendote, va un saludo cordial, Rodisi

solcarina said...

Rodisi...)

Muchas gracias por eso, yo también visitar su sitio de nuevo. Usted tuvo un gran blog.

Envío de un montón de amor - luz y mucha alegría.

solcarina said...

Thank`s a lot for comments on my blog; Michele and Milan...)

Very interesting.

What is life without hope and dreams.

Sending lots of love.

solcarina said...

Thank you Tom...)

You know and I know;
The Soul would have no rainbow if the eyes had no tears.

Depend on your thoughts!!

Sending love and Joy.

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